What’s more important in a relationship
What’s more important in a relationship, physical chemistry, emotional chemistry, intellectual chemistry, or something else altogether?
I’d like to say all the above but I think intellectual chemistry is probably most important for me. Physical chemistry is great to kick off a relationship but if a relationship is going to last more than a few months you need to have a similar belief system, be in a similar place intellectually and have a similar sense of humour. Then after a few years a shared history also comes into play.
I’m not a huge fan of the first few months of a relationship where you’re still getting to know each other and everything is new. I’m happiest after a few years together when there are no surprises and life is *mostly* predictable 😀